You have to fight and resist the thought that you’re limited in your possibilities and the way your life can be.
You have to train your mind. Aggressively.

Just like you exercise your body 

Mental workouts are real.
No matter how you achieve or want to start aligning your life, mind body or spirit first, I believe we will always naturally become what we want and desire. And arrive where we’ve always wanted to be. As Wayne Dyer says, “Stop flowing against life…”
Every choice situation decision outcome – it’s already done-keep going. And believe in better for yourself. 
Bloom.